Whats your guilty pleasure that you share with your bestie?

Hey Tae.If I were anon I would just move on.It is so tiring being the one who checks on everyone and having no one check on you.I just stopped dealing with family like that.I work two jobs,12 hour shifts,at least five days a week and going to school for another certification.I check on people weekly and the ones who were never checking on me are the family members I kept checking on.It was mainly the ones in their twenties who I help raised.I feel like this if they can post on Facebook and Instagram every day,hang out with their friends and other family who didn't do one thing for them then they could check on me if they actually cared which it's clear that they don't.I deleted numbers,erased text threads and didn't look back.We get older and get to a point in our lives where we refuse to let people play with us.They knew my number when they would beg for money and ask for favors but get amnesia when it comes to seeing how I'm doing.Foh.I don't need no one around me who only deals with me when it's convenient for them and I go out of my way to make time for them.No,screw all that.Go find another dummy because I will not be one any longer.When people show us they mean us no good then just pray about it and release them.God knows we did our part while we were in their lives so there's no need to feel bad when removing those people who were taking you for granted.

They wanna be forgotten about, forget them.

DROPS MIC!Yessss,that's right my sister! FORGET THEM!I totally agree.Life is busy and people got shit to do + are going through a lot but that's no excuse to not even check on someone ESPECIALLY IF THAT PERSON ALWAYS CHECKING ON YOU.People always make time for who they really want to make time for and if one person is ALWAYS doing the contacting first then whoever is on the receiving end don't want to bothered with them. I watch my mom who has cancer call people every single day to check on them just like she did before getting sick....so now when anyone tells me they're too busy to hit me with a text or call to check on me,I disappear because it's 100% horse shit.Especially if I bring it to your attention and you STILL continue to do it then that lets me know you do not care about me,my feelings or my well-being.That's my story and I'm sticking to that bihhhhh!Lol. Put your energy towards something else and fuck that that boy anon.

We only have one life to live!Go where the love is given freely without you having to ask or beg for it.I promise you,there is a man who will come along one day and show you that you were never asking too much.Texting and calling to check on people is just the bare minimum for human decency.The dude you're dealing with is a jackass and please do not feel bad for cutting him lose,if that's what you choose.Because like you stated,y'all already talked about him doing that rude shit and he hasn't made any changes because he doesn't care.Casper his ass and enjoy your life boo!

I ate papa John's pizza with spring rolls lol healthy living

Am I being too emotional because the dude I'm with don't like to ask how are you and how was your day?That is mad weird to me especially since we talked about it before.I also keep track of things.For the last nine days he hasn't asked me how I'm doing,how's my day,how's work or anything.I asked him those questions and yeah he responded. His text be so one sided.I ask him shit and he replies but he doesn't ask me one thing shit he doesn't even tell me he hopes work goes well.I feel like anon,wtf is wrong with these dudes?Smdh

And had the nerve to run me down and hit me with the---- you're out of my league shit.Tuh.And just randomly stops out of no where with the good morning messages,random calls and so on.I don't know why men do that and he's much older than me so hell yeah he knows the games he's playing.Simple ass nigga.

I cooked for the family.They wanted fried pork chops,white rice,lima beans and baked sweet potatoes.